Name: Linda McD
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Hi, I don’t want to be hi-jacking the ladies’ posts so did this instead. I’m just wondering about the comments section on here now. Personally, I hate all the giving out of e-mail addresses requesting more pics as it takes away from the original intention of the site but it seems to be getting worse: guys either leave a contact address and nothing else (wtf?) and others try it on every single post!! I mean, if a gal asks for a rating and for more contact then great, that’s hunky dory, but surely it’s different when she’s lacking in confidence asking if her pussy is looking alright? She’s not looking for an onslaught of requests to bang her like a rhino right into the middle of next week!!!!
I’m not looking to offend anyone but just starting a conversation…
And while I’m on this menopausal rant (in for a penny…) can I discuss something else? I have been amazed and educated by all the different shapes of women on here and am often dismayed at some of the comments. Is it that some folk are only used to the air-brushed porn magazine types? Suddenly an interesting, big-lipped lady shows her wares and they get all confused and timorous, sometimes resorting to descriptions like ‘slabs of meat’. I think this is a great site for showing that vulvas come in all different shapes, sizes and colours. Someone recently complained that men on here just comment favourably on ALL the pictures- well I say good for you guys who do, who appreciate the beauty in all of us ladies. x
Linda, I agree completely!
I’m amazed at the blatant stupidity of guys who post their email or contact information, as if they are going to actually hookup with the girl who is posting her pics.
It reminds me of a David Cross comedy routine about a guy driving a garbage truck while he’s trying to pick up a girl walking on the sidewalk. It just ain’t gonna happen.
The site is for viewing real vaginas on real women. Nothing ruins my viewing more than some ignorant clod’s insulting remarks about meat flaps or roast beef etc etc. I just want to vomit all over that guy.
I know some guys will never get past a locker room vocabulary, but we can at least comment without the rude descriptions and embarrassing pickup attempts.
Glad you agree Rick, thanks
Thank you Linda for bringing this to everyone attention …
It really needed to be addressed 🙂
Ice
Totally, thanks Ice x
i always thought the same i think someone should just start sending an on slaught of dick pix to those guys…
Ha ha ha great idea
Hi Linda yes fully agree with your comments I think ladies just like to know if their v is attractive some even just want to know if it looks normal!
Ladies you all have lovely vs no matter what they look like if a guy don’t like it then obviously it’s goodbye plenty more who would and also I do agree on guys trying to get more pics from the ladies personally I just rate as this is all they want to know and see but I’m sure if they wanted anything more then they would join a dating site but of course that’s just my own opinion coming from a male point of view
And I love your point of view!
Linda, perhaps you are right that guys shouldn’t volunteer their email addresses. And I think that just posting an email address with nothing else is silly.
But I would like to suggest that guys who post their email addresses requesting for more pussy pics are giving the girl an extra bit of compliment: they want to see more of her. A girl wants to know if her pussy is attractive and what nicer way than a guy asking her to show him more? She can certainly ignore the request.
I also suspect that when a girl reads the comments on this site, the positive responses don’t just give her confidence, but make her wet as well. Some have even stated that fact outright. And what girl wouldn’t? Here is a chance for a girl to get direct responses from guys who have hard-ons and are jacking off to pictures of HER. That’s right: at every moment of the day, she knows that there are guys with such big hard-ons responding directly to the attractiveness of her pussy — regardless of whatever unjustified negative opinions she may have previously had. And I suspect that just about every girl here is massaging her pussy as she thinks about it, too. And more than that, really, she is almost certainly rubbing herself into an orgasm.
That is the nice thing about it all. Guys can fantasize about ramming their dicks into a girl’s pussy and a girl can get reassurance that HER pussy is the one that gives them those feelings just by posting her pussy photo.
I would like to add my own little suggestion for the girls, though: I think one of the best things about this site is when a girl responds to what the guys think — making it much more personal and interactive. Sure, there are dating sites out there, but you can see that a bunch of the girls here are not just asking about how their pussies look, but rather, what a guy would like to do with it. I got a response to one of my comments recently and it was so nice to know that the girl was pleased with the fact that I took the time to explain in detail my thoughts about how I felt about her pussy. That simple response made me very hard and I would have loved to have had the opportunity to explain such things in more detail.
My point is that it is nice when sexual feelings are shared rather than just posted as one-way comments. We guys are bombarded with a lot of excellent porn and I am sure that all the guys here enjoy it immensely since those professionally taken porn shots are generally better than what a girl can take of herself with a cell phone. But there is something about a girl posting her pussy for our enjoyment and then sharing the fantasy together with a bit of back-and-forth dialogue — even if only briefly. I found that when a girl responds, that is just so much more satisfying. Honestly, it is hard not to blow a big wad when a girl with a pretty pussy does that. So girls, keep in mind that your pussies are nice to stroke to and we hope you are fantasizing about all the hard dicks out there. And if you want to turn a guy’s fantasy about you into an orgasmic reality, just respond to a bunch of the comments that turn you on.
And just one other thought: Keep in mind that for every one admiring comment that you receive about your pussy, there are at least 100,000 guys who feel just as turned on over you even if they are too bashful to post those feelings. And yes, if you post a shot of your pussy, you can be absolutely sure that every moment of the day there is some guy out there somewhere who not only admires your pussy, but is ejaculating to it as he imagines himself buried in its wet warmth. By posting your pussy photo, you made a whole lot of us happy. And we very much enjoy making you happy as well.
Good points there, you’ve made me see a reason for it and absolutely I agree with you about women responding. Thanks, I enjoyed reading this
Thank you for your nice comment, Linda. As you can see, a woman’s vagina is a very special thing to me – as I am sure it is for so many other guys here. As I look at each lovely pussy, I always seem to fall back to some memory of a lovely girl with a lovely pussy. Whether they were soft and bushy or smooth and silky, I always enjoyed them. I have taken a special fancy to the shaven ones these days and that brings me to think of a particular girl who had just started shaving her own and it was my own first encounter with a shaven pussy. I hope you don’t mind me using up so much space here, but I can’t help get carried away when I think of naked girls and their open pussies:
Anyway, I was seeing a girl in a sort of “friends with benefits” kind of way and she had recently spent some time with a guy who insisted that she shave her pube. I liked that clean-shaven look on her but she said that the itching was driving her crazy as the hair grew back. That got me into some serious thinking as I tried to figure out a way to help her out.
Nowadays, of course, girls will often get waxings. But my understanding is that the hair can still cause the itching. So my solution was to show her I genuinely wanted to help. I did this by purchasing a board about 5 feet long, 12 inches wide and 2 inches thick. Each morning we began a ritual: I placed the board across two dining room chairs and wrapped a comforter around it for padding. I then had her lie down, tits up, on the board with her hands above her head. I then fastened her wrists to the end of the board with a belt. Under her shoulders, I placed a pillow so that her tits would arch up high into the air as her head tilted back. That is a position that helps focus attention the tits in a highly erotic way. With the nipples pointing upwards, I would typically give them some light flicks with my tongue to firm them up.
But really it is what happens with the pussy rather than the tits that is important. I had her butt so that it was barely on the end of the board and her legs splayed outward with each leg supported on a separate chair. (Four chairs being used in total.) I then fastened the ankles to the chairs with other belts. This enabled me to kneel between her legs and place a bowl of water beneath her crotch area to catch the water as I shaved her pube. With her head tilted back, her arms bound above her, her tits thrusting upwards, and her legs tied apart with a man facing her innermost feminine place, she said that the exciting feeling of sexual helplessness made her understand the appeal of what people found in bondage, even if a true bondage session wasn’t really her thing. She said that the open-legged position that forced the separation of her vaginal lips focused her mind on a feeling of emptiness deep in her vagina.
I would then try to focus her mind even further on that deep emptiness by gently pressing my hands down on her mons area a few times to begin the flow of vaginal fluids. As her inner lips started to moisten from her cum, I would then moisten her mons area softly with my hands with shaving cream — carefully applying the cream around the outer lips. The shaving would then begin and each stroke of the razor blade was slow and careful. Sometimes as I was gently sliding the blade across her pube, the moisture of her inner lips would transform into little cum drops. As I would press my fingers against a vaginal lip to move it aside and ensure that each stubble was removed close to the opening, I would simultaneously use one finger to gently press down on her clitoris – just enough to engorge and stiffen it. This would often increase the flow of her feminine juices at the base of her vagina. As the cum slowly flowed out, it would sometimes create a long, sticky droplet that would hang below her butt and above the bowl. She always said that the sound of the water falling into the bowl as I shaved her was kind of erotic.
Anyway, I was able to then shave her quite smooth so that no nubs would irritate her. And for any of you guys reading this, the whole thing with the guy taking charge means you can leave strips of hair, such as the “landing strip” design, a “V” design, or even your own initials!
Once done, I would then spread the chairs fastened to her ankles even further outwards – as far as I could spread her legs without causing her pain. This was the signal to her that the shaving was over and that now she was going to get fucked. I had a small stool to assist in the right height to guide my dick at the right spot. I must say, focusing on her cunt during the entire shaving would get me pretty hard and my balls solid so it was a great way to get that nice “morning relief” that we guys seem to need most days. This whole process became a ritual every time she spent the night with me.
She liked the process as well as I did. She also had a nice butterfly pussy, just like some of the girls here. She was kind of artsy and showed her appreciation of my attention to her pussy by making a big paper cutout of a Monarch butterfly which she taped to my bedroom wall. She said that it was there to help remind me of her pussy any time I was feeling lonely and horny. She also made me a colorful small butterfly cutout for me to tape to my cubicle at work! She said that any time I was to call her from work, I must first stare at the butterfly for 5 minutes. Gosh, some girls really know how to keep a man thinking about her!
Anyway, I am going to now and return to the lovely pussies on this site.
And yes, I did go on too long again, didn’t I? Sorry about that.
I’ll volunteer to comply with your request Linda, you can come to my ‘salon’ anytime, i’ll give you a lifetime membership 😉
Good job !
To the point and hit the point of doing what we do and why we do it !
Linda. Do us all a big favor and stay on the UK sites that are just like this one. Then you wont have to show your Menopausal side to the world 🙂
I promise
Most guys can’t help themselves Linda. I mean, how often does a guy get to see the lady flower of the “girl next door”? It’s like an instant come on and triggers awkward responses. Yes, sure we make fools of ourselves, that’s the bewitching power women have over us. We see, we like, we want it bad… That’s the way it is. Guys leaving email addresses show more positive interest than those suggesting surgery or just being downright derogatory. The guys leaving email addresses obviously want to know more and see more, isn’t that a compliment in itself? That’s just my dumb caveman opinion…
Btw, my email address is naughtynought@yahoo.com if you’re interested in chatting
Yeah I see that, I get it, I do. And I liked the irony in your second post there
I agree Linda. And ignore krautsman!
Thanks Adam, it’s just a way of starting a discussion and hopefully we can keep it in the spirit of the rest of the site: just a bit of fun. Maybe my thoughts came over as a bit too serious, I was just wondering really.
Here Here ……nice rant
I need to control myself and stop ranting
Linda, i for one leave my email address on every post but I also say something about the post. I don’t do it because I think I’m going to hook-up with that girl and in fact I’m sure it will never happen. It’s more of a compliment that says you are so sexy and fuckable. I think a lot of girls/women like it and appreciate the fact that I like T here post enough to leave an email address especially if she is shy or has low self esteem. I try and leave positive feedback on all posts cause I appreciate the fact that they are putting themselves out there naked for all to see. Have you posted yet Linda? If not you can email me at redman196153@gmail.com and I’ll tell you what I think of your naked body.
Yep I have and I was happy with the response so don’t feel I then have to send any privately.
Well said Linda. But I think it’s not just the guys. I think quite a lot of the girls posting on the site now ask what the guys (or gals) would do to them. The site has changed a bit over time. I for one don’t actually think it’s for the best, but I’m sure nobody really cares what I think. Lol. Keep commenting Linda. I think you really boost some of the girls’ confidence.
Yeah you’re right, it changed so that women were seeking more than validation but I guess the next part of that is that they exchange more photos. I’d like to hear from women on here for sure (hey maybe you are???)
And it constantly amazes and saddens me that women are so insecure about their goods; I wonder where all that comes from?
Yes, I’m on here. I only comment occasionally, but I stop by now and again. I like your comments. Like you I’ve had my say about some of Travis’ comments. I think the site also misses some of the past regulars who had really nice things to say. However, I also think it’s good it attracts new people who also comment favourably on the whole. Keep up the good work guys and gals!
Hey I found you Linnie and you look fabulous but it was your comments that were the best!!! Loved them, keep commenting x
Thanks Linda. And thanks for your lovely comment on my post. I think it’s you that rocks! Nobody wants to hear what I have to say, but I think your comments on here are really encouraging for a lot of the posters. I think most of the guys like a bit of dialogue with you too and who can blame them?
Great points, Linda. I agree with your views here. I’ve always been bothered by the amount of spamming from people only commenting for more pictures or for sex. I find it misogynistic and demeaning. That also goes for the other “fetishes” that are made on nearly every submission.
You’re right, this is a rating site. And part of that means that we’re going to compare those submissions to what the industry standard portrays as an attractive V. If a lady naturally looks like someone who has been airbrushed for a gentleman’s magazine, then of course she’s going to get great praise. Real praise. I do tend to agree though that there is a lot of pity praise here as well, but also a lot of fake confidence reasons looking for pity praise. Some people will rate 10☆ on every V, and that too degrades the authenticity of a rating site.
I think age and reason are irrelevant to the rating, and even you have proven so with a previous social experiment.
We may not always agree but we definitely share the same frustrations with the site. I do rate harshly, and I’m aware that it doesn’t sit well with some. But neither does the fake pity, email propositions, or sick fetishes. What I can say is that in multiple occasions, the OP has either thanked me for my honest review or specifically asked me for an honest review. Though I do have a particular “taste” in how a V looks, that doesn’t mean I have rated all innies 10s and all others 1s. There have been a lot of solid 6 and 7s and I explain why. And even so, so many others here have such a negative opinion of me that any critique I give ends up with an attack. Even now some of my positive ones are met with attacks. And that too takes away from the legitimacy of the site.
We all have our opinions and at the end of the day that’s all they are. It’s a rating site, afterall and ladies come here to be rated. Not everyone is a perfect 10.
That being said, Linda, you have an amazing V. And I respect your thoughts here.
See Travis, this all makes sense to me but why you got to be so mean? I totally agree with you that there needs to be balance but that should be in the form of constructive criticism, not hateful, belittling attacks. I just can’t understand why anyone would want to hurt someone, particularly if they’ve admitted they are not secure in the first place. You could either rate it and move on or, like you’ve done many times, comment on what it is you don’t like without the mean, graphic details (‘blob of meat’, ‘gross’, ‘chewed up roast beef’, ‘any desperate man that would take it’ etc. etc. etc.). I’ll admit you’ve improved vastly since the eye-watering, nasty 2015/2016 comments where you seemed to be proud of the brutality of some of them.
It’s not that we don’t agree on the intention, I just want to make you a wee bit sweeter! I think you need a night with a group of confident ladies who are way off the scale of your ‘type’ who will give you the time of your life and then you can come on here and tell all the ladies they look fab and mean it! Let me know when it’s your 18th birthday and I’ll arrange it
Hey, I wasn’t being mean, I’m not mean, I was joking
Hahaha! My 18th birthday was too many birthdays ago… I agree that some of my past comments were brutal. And yes, I have toned it down a bit. I think we all serve our roles here. And though you may not condone some of my comments, it does create a broad separation with my positive and negative critiques. Unlike some people here who only give positive remarks regardless of the situation, there’s no arguing the fact when I give a positive review. It gives my reviews additional weight and authenticity. Nobody would ever question any of my reviews as being sugar-coated or a pity party. And that’s why I’ve been asked on multiple occasions for an honest review, or even had an OP pleasantly surprised when I’ve offered a positive review on her V when she didn’t necessarily think it fit my preference.
In many cases, negative reinforcement motivates people. For example, one OP posted a V that was nice but otherwise lacking due to her weight. Even though I wasn’t the only one who commented on her body shape, I was the one who got berated for it. However, a few months later, she proudly posted new pics after losing weight and her submission was very impressive — as I knew it could be.
Not every case is going to be that way. Not every insecure girl who says she is going to get surgery is actually going to do it. That just reinforces that the “Reason” line is unnecessary. It’s just a can of worms waiting to be opened. The real reason is that this is a rating site and the OP wants a rating. Plain and simple.
There are only a few people who really give value to this site and whose ratings I actually read. Yours is one. Everything else is either going to be pity, email spam, fetishes, or attacks. That’s what is detracting.
Travis, in the past I have disagreed with you……vigorously. I still wish you wouldn’t tell women to get surgery. (Pretty sure most guys would not similarly oblige if women “didn’t like how it looked”). However I do agree with you here. It’s a rating site. Not a dating site. I really wish folks would remember that. I you have indeed toned down your responses, although you still occasionally forget your opinion is not the “correct” one.
If I pretend to be turning 18, will you arrange an evening for me with a group of way off the scale confident ladies? Pretty please? 😀
Ah but you don’t need schooling Malcolm, I’m sure you’ve had your share of way off the scale confident ladies!
I’m sure whatever you arrange will be special and appreciated 😉
I agree 100%
Thanks Precious. Know what we girls need? We need Schiffner back! We oughta have a campaign. He made every woman feel a million dollars and we never appreciated that enough. Thankfully though there are way more cool, appreciative commentators than ever on here now so amen to that! x
I also enjoyed Schiffner’s comments, he almost had me wishing i was a girl. I also love your comments Linda, you have a great personality and it reflects in your comments. I’m not saying this to get more photos of your lady flower but I’ll never object if I do 😉
I’m still around.
You’re all doing a wonderful job debating and exalting and just plain communicating about vulvas.
That’s what’s important. Many past cultures have made vulvas taboo, and by extension sexuality for women.
Women who feel good about themselves . . . are more likely to share themselves with me and my dick. So I’m pro-vulva. LOL
This is good. Unless I want to possess a women, in which case I might want her to feel bad . . . so she won’t want to share with someone else.
That’s how the taboos started. Possession. Chattel. This is bad.
So fooling around with a camera and safely self-publishing a little porn can be liberating. I like free, happy women. I don’t want them to be unhappy or worried about silly stuff like um, their vulvas.
Strangely, reading and writing stuff about vulvas breaks down the stigmas we’ve had programmed into us. Even for Travis!
So keep up the good work, keep the discussions vigorous and stimulating, and keep those vulva pics cumming!
You seriously need to have a blog on here
Taboos regarding female sexuality go hand in hand with female sexual selectiveness. It has nothing to do with some patriarchic “possession”. It’s an evolved behavior. Human females are not like female chimps, which are very promiscuous. Female sexual modesty has been extremely important to human civilization. It has been essential to the propagation of fit genes. Of course all men love the sexual revolution because it gives us greater access to pussy than ever before. But in reality, it’s bad for society. So many unwanted kids result from it and it makes it so much easier for men not to commit when they’re getting pussy served on a platter regardless. Women are the gate keepers and shouldn’t be so sexually free with themselves. Now, that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t send anonymous V shots, or dress how they want, but they shouldn’t be fucking guys so freely. This concept that since men were always pigs, that true equality means that women should also be pigs, so we all end up fucking like rabbits, was the wrong path for society to take. Nothing good comes from it other than hedonistic gratification.
ive asked on many occasions to get photos to be sent to me but never had any yet, so why do we bother asking.
did anyone else have any luck.
have the women in this thread ever shared imtimate photos with somebody on here through their email
Well… Let me chime in on this as well…
I believe if the ladies that post there most valued prize on this site for the world to see and pass judgement on wanted to correspond with the knotheads that post their ideas as to what is and what isn’t up to their liking, they would sk for them to leave an email addy so they could get back with them.
If they don’t state that, then more than likely they do not wish to have a one on one convo with anyone here, just a vote as to what folks think about their prize…
Maybe VHelper could make a section, listing usernames along with the addys that corespond with them so that the ladies that wanted to start a convo could easily find the one(s) she prefered without having all those non-solicited emails cloging up the comments …
Just my thoughts and sorry VHelper, I wasn’t trying to make even MORE for you to do by adding an email list for the ones so desperately trying to get their emails out there…
Ice
I was lucky to get a few personal responses in my email
They are so much better.. it is more personal and the girls really open up in there photos and their conversations
Most of all it is a great way to build a relationship with that person and you both know what is on your mind
No bullshit and no beating around the bush, plus you can be more open with your conversations
I think the idea that all V’s are beautiful, is ridiculous actually. Some V’s are downright atrocious the same way some modern art is downright superficial, talentless and awful. Art and beauty are objective, and within that objective beauty, are many variations. But there exists beautiful and there exists ugly. Now, whether or not you should say that to a girl in the comment section is a whole other story. I think if they ask for honest feedback, they should get it..but in a respectful manner.
As for the guys sending e-mails, who cares? If the girl wants to send pics to some dudes email, so be it. If she doesn’t, so be it.
I’m taking it that you’re the same Ryan who was spouting above about we bad women who are the cause of hedonistic gratification? Well, this bad female gatekeeper thinks it’s also fine to send dudes emails and pictures but I’m just suggesting they do it on a more appropriate (I.e. dating) site and not a rating one particularly if it’s clearly unwanted. That’s all.
Conversation with pretty and clever woman is good thing. I don’t think women from this site need talks with me. So I don’t ask theirs mail .
You have the hottest pussy kik me hellownewman13
We can wank together on vid cam
Linda you sound under confident I however agree with your opinion…. that being said get your knickers off you only live once