Hello guys and gals –
First of all, thank you all for your continued support. The amount of traffic to the site has grown significantly over the last 6 months and I appreciate all the ladies who have been brave enough to submit their beautiful “V” photos and also to all the guys (and girls) who have taken time to post constructive feedback in the comments section.
As the traffic to the site continues to grow, and hence the amount of comments increases, I can’t help but notice all the personal emails that are being posted in an effort to solicit more pictures from the ladies. In my opinion, if someone would like to see additional pictures then the best way would be to request that the posting lady send more photos to website for posting. That way all may enjoy the additional pictures if the lady chooses to send more. Having a bunch of emails scattered all over the comment section is an eye sore in my opinion.
HOWEVER, all that being said, this site is as much as yours as it is mine and so I would like to put the issue up for vote.
Please take a few minutes to vote below and also please leave additional comments if you want to give more feedback on the matter.
Kisses,
Vicky V 🙂
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Sometimes we get gals who are straight-up exhibitionists. But a lot of times, there are women, often very young, who maybe aren’t experienced in the wild world of semi-anonymous pic-swapping, erotic chat, etc.
I don’t want RMV to be a gateway for that. It’s tough for me to say, because I’ve had fun swapping a few emails with the gals myself. But it’s not worth it if just ONE young woman has a bad experience.
There are other places on the net that are more overtly about “show me yours, I’ll show you mine.” This space needs to stay more focused on being a V-positive, safe place.
I have been wondering if visiting this site was worth it. The site can be so slow and it only has a handful of submissions per week. Thank you Vicki for making up my mind with this poll . . . I am not coming back.
Sorry to see you go Charlie…
Off topic but have others experienced slow load times?
Good. No more wasted bandwidth for ‘comments’ like….
Looks good. Send more pics to charlieonlycaresaboutcharlie@d-bag.com
It is unfortunate that there is not a huge stream of photo submissions but that is partly due to the fact we only accept genuine photos and that we do not heavily publicise this website, as it costs us a lot of money.
I administer this page everyday, several times a day, to ensure a good standard which I do in my own spare time.
As far as I am concerned, this is a great website and long should it live
VHelper
There should be a third option here. When we submit comments, we should have an additional option to allow the beautiful ladies who post here to Private message us directly. That way if they feel our comments are worthy of further correspondence they can contact the commenters at their own discretion. And those commenters who do not wish to be contacted can opt out of that option.
This would also keep both parties email addresses more private, not displaying for the world to see but just the people you wish to contact.
Just a thought.
I like your idea Josh but unfortunately the website, as currently built, does not have that functionality and I have a feeling it would not be cheap to add it. Definitely something to consider in the future though.
I like Josh’s idea, is there any way that within the current website restrictions you could make it possible for the girls that post there V to be able to see the e-mail address of the person commenting on it? Then they can reply to personal e-mail addresses if they so choose, for whatever reason, without the e-mail visible to everyone else.
Vicky, not sure how you administer your website, but apparently it is fairly easy to implement using a php script. I have never done this personally, but I will research this. Others seem interested in this idea. Not sure if any ladies who have posted (other than Svenia, thank you for speaking up, and for sharing your beautiful V with us) have chimed in, but it would be nice to listen to comments from the brave and beautiful women who are the heartbeat of this site.
I think emails should not be displayed, it makes this site look kind of cheap and allows dull comments with the sole intention to try and get more photos privately. Many ladies have mended their self esteem here and it is a serious matter. I agree with what Josh offers.
What I would really like is an option to click a commentors name and see the rest of his/her comments. This way we ladies could better understand who we want to contact in the case Vicky will give a go to what Josh offers. And of course I would love to read all of Mr. Schiffner’s comments. So loving and inspirational. Very nice to see that some blood can still stay in the brain:)
Svenia –
Thanks for the feedback. When I started this site I envisioned it to be more of a naughty/sophisticated theme rather than naughty/trashy (if that makes sense :)). I agree that all the emails seems to take it in the direction I was trying to avoid.
However, it is important for me to please the majority of the readers and the reason I am asking for the feedback.
I voted for people being able to post email addresses in comments. As I think about this more I see a problem with posting email addresses this way, and a solution. When email addresses (including mine) are posted on the website this makes those addresses easy pickings for spammers. I would be happy to have email addresses in Rate My V posts banned, IF another process were put in place for people to initiate back channel communication.
Thanks for this delightful website.
Mark
I would say let people have the option to let the poster see their email but not for everyone.
It’ hard to tell how to vote/rate. There should be a running count.
Yes, it de-legitimizes the ratings somewhat. But then again, so do the ads you’re hosting.
As the VHelper that has monitored and administered this website over the last few months, it is a huge characteristic of all websites of this type that people would wish to leave their email for further communication and that if I should remove all comments that contain this, it would be very quiet indeed.
It is down to the discretion of the woman to contact those who leave email addresses and it is their responsibility to do so.
I am in constant contact of this website and regulate what is posted. For the vast majority of the time, it is a very positive feeling and so little of the negative.
VHelper